That's fandom lol. The thing is, I regret to inform you that I really don't honestly care what an idol says or does 90% of the time, 95% maybe. Only real exceptions I make are criminal things. And presumably those things are gonna end his career anyway lol. So you will never shame me into disliking one of my favorite groups or idols due to something they said that you didn't like. DOn't even try.
People need to understand that following groups or being a fan of groups/idols does NOT mean that you support everything they say and do unconditionally. It also doesn't mean that you need to hate on them every two seconds when they fuck up either. That's just virtue signaling half the time anyway.
But anyway! My ideal Kpop fall release scenario is 2/3 complete. Pentagon and Exo coming back in early September, just need GOT7 to announce theirs now. Depending on what Pentagon is doing, I can always wait for GOT7 when it comes to ordering anyway. I do care about BTS lol, but not as much as those three. Me and BTS are weird. On one hand, I really like their music and I really like Suga, but the rest of them and their group dynamic and concepts and all that, bore me. I can't get into them at ALL. I also don't find their stages or choreo gripping either. Maybe it's also bc I hate their fandom, I'm not really sure. I'm way closer to stanning EXO at this point than BTS. I'm not even sure if I know all their names tbh. I just know a lot of them start with J lmao. And I probably couldn't pick anyone except Suga and Rapmon out of a lineup. Otoh, I DO know all the EXO members all of a sudden and I think I could identify all of them too lol. Ofc it helps, that I like five out of what, nine? I kinda like Chanyeol too. That is, I like his raps the best, but personally he sounds a little bit like a jerk lol.
In other random things, I had a smug the other day when I saw this person whining on Tumblr about how they kept seeing posts from Kpop fans about how real people shipping is disgusting and it was boohoo affecting her writing. Like...lmao. You should feel guilty and gross bish. Those are called NORMAL feelings. Because it is, sorry
to say. This one person I used to know, who lowkey stalked me, was this big fanficcer for Jrock, but then years later I ran into her somewhere else and she actually grew a conscience and said she no longer posted real person fic publicly. Even though I still think she's trash, I had like 1% respect for her in that moment.
That's the very least you can do. In the connected age where all these idols search for themselves online, it's really honestly disgusting and disrespectful. If I were them, I'd be all, wow what fuckin' creeps. Actually, would bet money they DO think that, but then they're all polite like GOT7 and just ask people to stop. Just know, forreal, that's most likely what your oppas think of you.